Camp Simcha’s biggest ever sibling residential retreat saw 80 brothers and sisters of seriously ill children enjoy three days of non-stop entertainment and peer support.

Travelling from London, Manchester and Gateshead, the children aged eight to 17, descended on Matlock and jumped straight into a packed programme of activities. These ranged from rock climbing and abseiling to a silent disco and arts and crafts – as well as the traditional Camp Simcha campfire circle time, which gives them an opportunity to share some of their daily challenges.

It all provided the perfect opportunity for the children to experience new adventures and make friends with others who understand what it feels like to have an ill sibling.

Describing the positive impact sibling retreat has on the children attending, Camp Simcha Chief Executive Daniel Gillis said: “We understand that a critical illness doesn’t just affect the ill child, but it impacts the entire family. Ensuring siblings feel valued during this difficult time can be a real challenge.  When mum and dad, understandably, need to spend more time with their seriously ill child, siblings can feel isolated, stressed and emotions can run high.

“However, sibling retreat puts them front and centre. They walk in and almost instantly forget any worries or burdens they might be carrying. Watching new friendships flourish and existing ones strengthen is very special.  It really is a game-changing three days of pure fun, but also respite, for the siblings and a privilege to observe.”

Yedidya, from Manchester, whose sister Basya has two very rare kidney diseases, attended this year’s sibling retreat. He said: “I counted down the days as I was so excited and just couldn’t wait!”

His mum Deena explained why it was so important for Yedidya to have his own adventure away from the home environment: “We spend so much time in hospital which means that Yedidya doesn’t always get all the attention he deserves. Retreat gives that boost to the sibling, makes them the centre of attention and gives them an opportunity to try out activities that they would never ordinarily get the chance to do.

“From the second he got home, Yedidya never stopped talking about Camp Simcha – it was wonderful to hear him so animated.  Now our eight-year-old is hoping he can go next year!”

And Yedidya’s highlight of the weekend: “The high ropes and zipline. Although I also loved the silent disco and, of course, the food!”

Camp Simcha supports nearly 800 siblings each year, through a programme which also includes therapeutic arts, sibling groups, retreat, volunteers and counselling – building their self-esteem and sense of independence, ensuring siblings are not the ‘forgotten sufferers’ when a child is ill.